? ? You don’t have to engage with every single
soulmate you meet or person you’re drawn to...
…and you certainly don’t have to go
round in a loop, giving your energy
to them / dynamic for months
(or even years).
.
Yes, of course these relationships
have medicine for us + there is
wisdom in the belief people
come into our lives
for a reason
::: AND :::
We have
SOVEREIGN CHOICE
over our lives + who we engage with!
?
One of those
choices can be to
QUANTUM LEAP through
these lessons; absorbing and
alchemizing what would have
taken much longer, in a
short amount of time.
.
In fact,
this process
can be chosen
upon meeting someone.
It it totally possible to meet a
soulmate, tune into the lessons that
are available in that soul contract,
and then download them right
then and there, instead
of going into a whole
loop with them.
?
I used to be the queen of
staying entangled for much
longer than I “needed” to be…
.
I have a lot of empathy for that version of
myself, because she was doing the
best she could at that time.
But oh how it is SUCH a blessing
to have these tools now!
To be able to step back and tune in,
instead of immediately becoming
entangled....
I still may choose to dive in,
but it is now a conscious
and intentional decision!
This allows the union
to feel far more aligned.
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Have you ever overstayed in a dynamic; stretching out lessons?
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